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Finding Balance…

April 25, 2013 by Logan 3 Comments

It’s funny really….to be planning a blogging conference and to simultaneously struggle with even getting blog posts written.  I mean, I’ve had a couple here and there, but I tell you what…balance isn’t something that gets handed to us on a silver platter is it?

So that’s what I’ve been trying to do. Trying to find balance…and realizing that it’s not something that’s so much found, as created. It is intentionally stepping away from my phone screen, and computer screen, and to engage my life.  There is part of me that thrives in planning Allume, but there is a part of me that’s been getting swallowed up in it all too.  I find myself reaching and grabbing out for Jesus to fill me up, and to fill my kids and my husband…because most days, I find myself really drained.

I fell asleep 20 minutes into a movie with my husband last night just a little bit after 9.  I’m just really tired all the time.

But 2 weekends ago, we escaped the city and high speed internet, and I took 2 days and breathed in friendships and mountain air and felt my soul fill up again.

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We played outside with friends, and flew kites, and foolishly ate s’mores AFTER bathtime.  And I loved every single second.

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On the way home, we stopped at one of my favorite antique spots ever, and I found a vintage scale for just the right price (after looking for years for one!)  And it’s my favorite color even!  Sometimes God just likes to give us good, albeit unnecessary, gifts.

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And in the past week, I spent a couple of days ignoring laundry so that I could immerse myself and my kids into some creative projects…and I built a coat rack from a cool salvage piece of wood, and just 2 days ago I built a table from a vintage French wine crate and a piece of barnwood.  And those things felt good.

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And I didn’t take a million pictures to illustrate how to do it…I just did it to enjoy the process for myself.  (You’ll be pleased to know though that it really was as simple as cutting a board into equal sizes and screwing them to the side of the crate and then sanding and waxing the entire thing.)

So lately….I’ve been living, and sometimes I’m trying to blog about it…and sometimes I’m just not.  And I think that’s ok….even if you’re planning a blogging conference.

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More Than Rubies….(A Concert and A Giveaway!)

April 23, 2013 by Logan Leave a Comment

I’ve just got fun stuff happening to share with ya’ll!

So, a few months back I was chatting with my friend, the talented singer/songwriter, Christa Wells.  She was telling me about the new CD that she and Nicole Witt are releasing called More Than Rubies.  And because she’s awesome, she sent me a few advance copies to give it a listen and to be able to give 2 away to celebrate the official release with her today!

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And, to make things even more fun, I have the privilege of hosting Christa and Nicole at my home on Friday June 21st for a special More Than Rubies concert!  The concert will be in honor of my dear friend Melissa Means who passed away on February 28th this year. All proceeds will be donated in Melissa’s honor to Let There Be Mom.

Let There Be Mom was created to help moms when they, or their child’s father, are diagnosed with a life threatening illness by preserving the legacy of the ailing parent. We are here to assist moms in preserving the traditions their families have started, the memories they have made and the hopes and dreams they have for their children. We hope that each mom & dad that we work with make a full recovery, however in the event that one of them is taken from this earth, Let There Be Mom will have helped them leave something for their children to embrace.

Let There Be Mom is a really phenomenal organization that has done some special things to help preserve the memory of Melissa.  They collected and bound letters from Melissa’s friends and family for each of her children, made necklaces with her fingerprint to give to her girls when they turn 18, created quilts from her clothes for her children….seriously, some really dear stuff that makes me cry every time.

So….mark your calendars for Friday, June 21st and join us for an evening of music with Christa Wells and Nicole Witt.  You can get your tickets HERE!  The doors will open at 6:30 for wine, coffee, desserts, and appetizers, and the show will start at 7:30.  Weather permitting, we’ll have the concert outside.  As of right now we only have 35 tickets available.  Tickets are $25 each and as I said before, all proceeds and additional donations will go straight to Let There Be Mom.  It’s a date night for a good cause!

Hop on over and snag your copy of More Than Rubies today, and get ready to usher peace, calm, and the power of a totally incredible lineup of music into your home!  I’ve been listening to the CD for the past couple of weeks on repeat and seriously love the way that it sets my heart in the right place even during the chaos of dinnertime madness in my house.  You know what I’m talkin’ about!

Honestly though…I love every single song on this album!  Get a load of the lineup…

Tracks:
1. Image of God
2. Set Free
3. Dawn of Grace
4. Lay Us Low
5. Pray
6. Visible Invisible
7. Live and Breathe
8. Shepherd God
9. Even Though
10. 10,000 Reasons (Bless the Lord)
11. Coming to the Light

You will LOVE!  So…snag a copy HERE, purchase a ticket HERE and come join us at my home to hear it all LIVE on June 21st!  And…for fun, enter below to win the album!

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Are you Desperate?!….{Companion DVD Study}

April 22, 2013 by Logan Leave a Comment

I am so excited to share something with ya’ll today!

Awhile back I wrote about my dear friend, Sarah Mae’s book, Desperate – Hope for the Mom Who Needs to Breathe.  

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Embarrassingly enough, I hadn’t even completely finished reading it myself at that time and hadn’t gotten far enough to realize that 3/4 of the way through I’m mentioned in it!  And I have to say… it’s fun to find yourself in your friend’s book.  Regardless of my literary cameo though, I have to say, this book is amazing, and the women behind it are the real deal!

Today the Desperate – Hope for the Mom Who Needs to Breathe DVD Companion Study by my friends Sarah Mae and Sally Clarkson releases! So, what is the Desperate Companion Study? Glad you asked! At the end of each chapter in the book there are QR codes which lead the reader to a 2-3 minute video of Sarah and Sally talking about the chapter. Those little videos are now available on a DVD to make group viewing much easier (speaking of groups, get a Mom Small Group Guide for free here!). The DVD also includes a bonus Q & A time with Sarah and Sally.

If you don’t have the book yet, take a peek at this video to get a feel for the videos:

To celebrate the release of this DVD, they have lined up some special things for you…

 

A Sale!

The Kindle version of Desperate is on sale TODAY ONLY for $3.99! Get it here!

A Special Deal!

If you have been wanting to start a book club or group in your church using Desperate, now would be a great time to get the books! If you buy five *paperback* copies of Desperate this week (through Friday) you can get the Desperate DVD for FREE! And if you are among the first 50 to buy the five paperback books, you also get these lovely DaySpring Redeemed – Everything Beautiful Earrings!

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Go HERE (or your favorite store) to get the books! Then just take a picture or scan your receipt and send it to: desperatebook@thomasnelson.com. (Remember, the books have to be in paperback to get the DVD and the earrings!)

Sarah Mae has some fun giveaways running on her site this week too, so hop on over there to enter to win a whole bunch of other prizes!

I’m so proud of my friend and SO excited to share with you this exciting DVD and study!  So check it out and let me know when you happen to run across lil’ ol’ me in there too!

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Renovations…Kitchen Love!

April 15, 2013 by Logan 4 Comments


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Our house didn’t sell.  Which is ok really.  In the past week however, after almost 2 months of silence, I’ve had 6 calls to show our house.  It’s off the market now though since another neighbor is buying the house we’d wanted just 2 doors down.  I’m not moving just to move!  We love our house and our neighborhood, so we’re staying put!

But that brings me to what our next plan is….

Renovation!

We’ve met with an architect and I’ve done some rough sketching on graph paper to give him a starting point for “the plan.”  The most exciting thing to me is taking our current kitchen above, adding some significant space off the back of the house, and hopefully ending up with something akin to this dreamy situation!

One thing I’m most excited about is putting large drawers in the base cabinets instead of standard cabinet doors.  It’ll be so nice to open a drawer to get out pots and pans, sippy cups, and the dreaded tupperware that currently falls on my head from an upper cabinet at least 4x a week.

And I’m wondering if you lovely readers would help a sister out with planning this beaut?! In addition to the lower large drawers, I’d like to include some upright baking rack storage to make it easier to get cookie sheets and whatnot out. Sort of like so perhaps…

So, for all you clever thinkers out there, and for those of you who have renovated a kitchen before (or have grand plans in your mind to do it), what would be the thing that you would most want to include?  Or what is the little detail or storage solution that makes all the difference for you?  I’m wanting to collect ideas here to make this kitchen into a high beauty, but highly functioning and efficient place!

Share your thoughts and ideas with me in the comments below?  I’m excited to take you all on this journey with us! (Remind me of this later when I’m griping about our 85th microwave meal down the road mkay?!) 🙂

Thanks friends! Can’t wait to hear your thoughts and ideas!  And if you’re curious to see more of mine, follow me on Pinterest and check out my Renovation Ideas board to see what’s inspiring me!

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Vintage Made Modern…And A Super Fun Giveaway!

April 9, 2013 by Logan 20 Comments

So friends, after being a totally sparse blogger, I figured I’d show back up in the blogosphere with a fun giveaway today!

Ya’ll know I’m a giant fan of Annie Sloan Chalk Paint by now. I’ve refinished lots of pieces and love the way a can of awesome paint can totally transform something!  Here are a few of my most favorite transformations!

 

 

 

My friend Jennie was my source for all things Annie Sloan, but after a couple of years in the biz, Jennie made the tough decision to stay home with her littles full-time.  But… NEVER FEAR Upstate SC chalk paint lovers!  Just because Jennie is gone, doesn’t mean that chalk paint is too. Lucky for us, Jennie passed on the business, and there’s a new shop in town! (And by town, I mean Greenville, SC.)

Jennie Leigh Designs is now Vintage Made Modern!!!   Vintage Made Modern is the exclusive distributor for Annie Sloan, and my new friend Lindsay Oehmen, who is a blast and a half, is running the well-painted show now!

 

Check out the new studio! It is so awesome ya’ll!

 

 

It’s in a brand new location!  She ditched the small booth at Palmetto Home and Garden and instead, Lindsey opened a full service store to better serve  us, the customers!  This new studio/boutique of course includes the wonderful Chalk Paint®, wax and Fabrics by Annie Sloan, but also has a great custom color table where if you can’t find the perfect color already, Lindsay can help you create the perfect color.

Also, there is a dedicated area where Lindsay holds workshops ranging from beginner to advanced techniques.  UM…can we say, “Grab a group of friends and make a night of it?!”

The Intro Workshop is the most popular and is really for anyone who has never touched Annie Sloan Chalk Paint, all the way to people who have been using it for a long time.  In this workshop you will discover the versatility  and ease of application of Chalk Paint®.  (It’s SUCH a great product!)  You will learn 5 different painting techniques and finishes with clear and dark wax. It’s a hands-on workshop where you learn modern, rustic, two-color distress, lime washing, and color washing techniques.  You will also get up close and personal with both the clear and dark wax, mixing the two and learning how to apply and appropriately take off the excess wax. You will experience the different ways to obtain a soft, beautiful, durable finish. This is a 4-hour workshop and all the materials are provided.  Just bring yourself!

 

 

And to celebrate Vintage Made Modern and Annie Sloan Chalk Paint’s new Greenville home, Lindsey has agreed to give away a private Intro Workshop for 4!
Did you get that…a private Intro Workshop for FOUR! (Valued at nearly $400)  Meaning, one of you wins it and grabs some friends to make a night of it!  You can thank me later.  And if you want, I might even pop by to join you and help Lindsey out!  So yeah, I just confessed that the chances of me crashing are pretty decently high. (Unless of course you’d prefer that I didn’t! No offense taken…no worries!)

So pop by the store to scoop up some Annie Sloan Chalk Paint and tell Lindsey that I sent you! And enter below to win the workshop for you and 3 friends!!!  You don’t have to live in Greenville to enter, but it’d probably be easier unless you want to drive in from out of town since the workshop will be held at Vintage Made Modern.  The giveaway runs til this Thursday, 4/11/13, at midnight!

 

Vintage Made Modern
1322 E Washington St, Ste C2, 
Greenville, SC.
(864) 385-5004

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Stains…Adventures in Egg Dying

March 25, 2013 by Logan 1 Comment

Easter Eggs

Seriously, isn’t that precious?  Look at my cute kids happily concentrating on decorating Easter eggs.  The time-honored tradition that has absolutely nothing to do with the true celebration of this season, but we participate nonetheless.  It’s a delightful craft filled with joy and creativity.

And GADS of stress!

I’m having a moment of confession here.

I hate dying Easter Eggs.

Really….in an “I would rather have to clear my yard of dog poop than dye eggs” sort of relationship.

I’m a crafty mom.  I’m into collages and crayons, paints and playdoh.  We bake cookies and go on nature walks to get crafty with later.  But the truth is that Easter egg dying makes my insides almost physically cringe.

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5 cups of lovely colors in a group.  And a small hand begging to get started creeps into the photograph from below.  It’s a dance really.  The “WAIT!!!, Mommy MUST help you” with the pulling back to allow small hands to create for themselves.

And every tiny bump of a cup or brush of a carefully rolled up sleeve sends my heart racing.

It’s the beckon of a spill… the welled-up potential of catastrophe… the lingering feeling that this will be the year that the carpet is stained beyond repair or that their matching shirts will become a smattering of ill-intended tie-dying.  But the joy in their faces between the shoving to use first the blue dye and then the red one somehow keeps me coming back annually for more.

Despite the fact that a mere 45 seconds in, the unthinkable happens….

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And it’s the red one….pouring over the edge of the table onto the seat of a chair that thankfully needs to be recovered anyhow.

But still.

I’m thankful in that moment that 3 layers of protection separate my 3 year old’s clothing from the streaming liquid.  Two layers soak through with hot pink vinegar-tinged water.  I rush to stop the trail to the floor…and then I do what any reasonable person does…I snap a picture!

We finish with the 4 remaining colors, and I feel my chest pumping hard until all of the dye is where it rightfully belongs…down the sink.

And I remind myself most thankfully that this isn’t what I’m celebrating now anyway.  That the fresh red stain on my chair has more to do with a blood soaked brow on a cross for me than it does a stickered and colorful egg.  And despite the stress of this horrid craft, I find my mind lingering on the stains of my own life, that because of my Jesus have been wiped clean.

Suddenly, I’m struck by the thought that the huge stains of my life are easier to wipe away than the ones on my chair.

Purge me with hyssop, and I shall be clean; 
wash me, and I shall be whiter than snow. 
Let me hear joy and gladness; 
let the bones that you have broken rejoice. 
Hide your face from my sins, 
and blot out all my iniquities. 
Create in me a clean heart, O God, 
and renew a right spirit within me. 
Cast me not away from your presence, 
and take not your Holy Spirit from me. 
Restore to me the joy of your salvation, 
and uphold me with a willing spirit. 

~ Psalm 51:7-12

 

And when they came to the place that is called The Skull, there they crucified him, and the criminals, one on his right and one on his left. And Jesus said, “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” And they cast lots to divide his garments. And the people stood by, watching, but the rulers scoffed at him, saying, “He saved others; let him save himself, if he is the Christ of God, his Chosen One!” The soldiers also mocked him, coming up and offering him sour wine and saying, “If you are the King of the Jews, save yourself!” There was also an inscription over him, “This is the King of the Jews.”  – Luke 23:33-38

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Random Things….

March 17, 2013 by Logan 2 Comments

I haven’t posted in a few days, but I have some things…random things, that have been on my mind that really must be shared in no particular order.  So here we go.

I joined CrossFit last week.  Southern Moon CrossFit to be exact.  If you live in the Greenville, SC area and want to remember muscles that you’d forgotten even existed, then you should come join me there.  The first day I went with my friends Lisa and Milly, there was a girl who was so ripped up wearing a t-shirt that said, I’m not even kidding you… “Drop It Like A Squat.”  I dropped it alright…but I wouldn’t say it was anywhere close to something that would’ve made Snoop Dog proud.

Also, I should tell you that I went to Costco the other day and just happened to find a pretty sweet parking space. It was maybe 7 spaces away from the main entrance.  I just lucked out like that.  But when I went to leave, and I had a cart FULL mind you, I swear that someone waited 5 minutes for me to load my car and my kid just to get my parking space.  Why do people do that?!  It was a gorgeous day!  Get off your duff people and walk 4 extra spaces.  You could’ve already gotten in, grabbed a rotisserie chicken, and sampled something from the Vitamix demo in the time it took to wait.  Seriously…ridiculous!

I’m heading to a blogging conference called Blissdom this week.  I am super excited to see my dear friend, Susan,the night before I head to the conference!  Then, Thursday morning I’m going to meet up with some bloggy friends for brunch to celebrate our friend Heather’s birthday!  I’m going to be rooming with my incredible friend, Erika, at Blissdom, who is just simply amazing (and also one of our Allume speakers!)  I’ll see loads of great friends, and meet some guys and gals I’ve heard about and connected with online too which will be super fun.  I’m really looking forward to it!  Please pray for safe travel for me and covering over my family while I’m gone too?

Our house still hasn’t sold.  And I can’t, for the life of me, figure out why.  It’s a great house.  And it still could sell, but after having it on the market since before Christmas with no offers, it’s kind of a bummer.  Especially since I was hoping we could move just a couple of houses away to my dream house.  Here’s the thing though, it’ll be just fine.  And it still could sell, and we still could move a couple of houses away to my dream house, but if we don’t I’ll still be happy and God will still use us in every way he has planned no matter which space we live in.

I’m getting so excited about Allume!  I realize it’s not til October, but I’m really starting to see a lot of these past few months of really hard work coming together.  I’ve had phone calls with some of our phenomenal speakers and sponsors, and truly, I’m so excited about the things that I believe that God has told us for this conference, and I’m even more excited about the things he has planned that I don’t know about at all!  Ohhhh….It’s going to be SOOO good!  If you want to come (and you really should) then you can click HERE to be directed to the page to purchase your conference pass!  Don’t wait too long though, we’re selling fast!

And look…we updated the logo.  Isn’t it so pretty?!

And on a serious note…I’ve been thinking about my sweet friend Melissa every single day since she died.  I still can’t believe she’s gone.  I was looking through some pictures the other day with my closest group of friends and it’s just so weird and sad to think that we’re down one. I keep trying to remind myself how I walked through deep grief last year when Fisher died, to figure out what I did well last time, and what would help more this time.  I keep looking back through all of my blog posts after March 21st last year to see what God was teaching me…and this time I’m asking him not to just teach me the same thing, but to build on the things I learned last time.  I know he will.  But now is hard.  I really miss my friend.

Melissa is on the back row, top left by the way.

I really love these women.  We realized the other day that we have to get better about taking pictures together again.  This one was like 2 years ago!  I have been so blessed in each stage of my life to have the most incredible people around me.  People who help me grow from one place to another…who do life, and walk joys and triumphs alongside me.  Each stage of my life has had different people…but each stage has held such sweet friendships.  This part of my life is no different.  Maybe deeper even…walking through things none of us had ever imagined for our lives at 34.  And each bit of my life, each friend up until now, has had a hand in making me who I am today.  So if you’re one of those people who maybe I don’t see so often anymore, please know that you are so dear to me…that without you, I’m not sure I’d have gotten here so well.  God has taught me so much through the body of Christ….oh, just so so much.

Ok…I’m going to eat a salad now and watch a movie with my man.  I just had to share a few random thoughts.  Thanks for indulging me!  And in other blog-related news…I have a super cool giveaway coming up from one of my favorite products ever maybe this week if I can get my act together before I leave for Blissdom!

 

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Restore…

March 11, 2013 by Logan Leave a Comment

Ok, So I have a fun tidbit to share today!  And can I just say that I’ve been wanting to share this with you all, but the way that my life has been lately, I’ve been doing pretty well to keep my head above water.

A couple of months back, I got an email asking if I’d be interested in giving the Restore program from Christian Care Ministry a shot.  The Restore program is a faith-based health coaching program.  I’m not a giant New Years resolution gal, but there is something about a new year that does make you want to get yourself together.  This year started off pretty crazy for me with my trip to Bangladesh, so to have a coach help me along the way was a super appealing way to get motivated.  I mean for real, sometimes we just need a hand to hold!

So I started the program almost a month back and it has been SO great!  I have to be honest and say that I wasn’t sure about the whole thing entirely, but really, who doesn’t want to be more emotionally, spiritually, and physically healthy?!  What have you got to lose!?  For me…nothing… but a few extra pounds!

I had my first call with Stephani, my health coach, a few weeks ago and she was so relatable and honest even that very first conversation.  I shared about how I’m in perhaps the busiest season of my life maybe ever.  Between being wife and mom, there’s been a lot of hard stuff going on lately, and I’ve been hard at work planning Allume!  What I loved most was when she said to me that if we can set goals that are doable for this busiest season, then when life slows down, it’ll be really easy to maintain.

She even helped me make my goals really simple.  They’re so simple that I’m almost embarrassed to list them for you.  Something about saying them out loud and making them actual goals though has made them very doable.  So here they are:

1. Add a vegetable! – I knew that I wasn’t eating enough veggies mostly because I feel like I’m always in a hurry just to get sustenance at all.  Stephani said that anytime I’m eating something, just add a vegetable.  It’s been so easy to do, and easy to remember.

2. Take a walk! – Due to some nasty weather and everything going on with Melissa the last couple of weeks, I haven’t been great about this one, but I have been trying and as it’s been nice, I’ve gotten out for a walk or a bike ride with my kids.  It’s small, but ya gotta start somewhere.

3. Reduce sugar intake! – Other than eating nothing but a giant ice cream cone on the day that Mel passed and a couple of Krispy Kreme hot donuts, I have been doing better on this one.  I’m a total sweets gal, but I’m really thinking hard every time I get a craving.

Stephani also said something that I’m not sure why it hasn’t occurred to me before.  I have a tendency to be an emotional eater.  AWFUL…I know!  She suggested that when I’m tempted to eat something just for an emotional reason, just submit it to the Lord just like I’d do in a fast.  It’s just recognizing where I am, and that what I need isn’t something sweet to eat!  I told her about the full-sized ice cream cone last week…which I did give extra thought and prayer to, but even she said that sometimes, we just need to cut ourselves some slack!

Anyhow, it’s been great to have the accountability, encouragement, and wisdom that she offers!  She prays with me at the end of our weekly call, and honestly, I’ve really enjoyed it, and feel like it’s making a big difference for me so far!  I have a couple more months to keep trying the program, and this coming week we’re going to talk about a health risk assessment that I took to find out more about where I fall with all of that.  We’re adding strength training soon, and since I just signed up to join CrossFit today, I’m sure that’ll fit right in to the plan!

Don’t expect me to be taking any before and after pictures right now…or at least not the before ones!  Let’s just say, as I told my girlfriends today, that right now, I feel like someone peeled open my leg skin and poured a carton of cottage cheese down in my thigh.  And if that’s not motivation, then I don’t know what is!

I’ll keep ya’ll posted on my progress, but really, if you’ve been thinking you need something that helps you set attainable goals with encouragement and spiritual benefit as well as physical, this is your program!  I’ll check back in about it in a few weeks and let you know how it’s still going!

To learn more about Restore or to sign up, you can click on the banner below to be directed to their website, or you can click HERE to go to their blog, or pop on over to their facebook page HERE!

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*Disclosure: I have been given a 3-month trial of the Restore program in exchange for posting about it. All opinions though are completely my own and I would never recommend anything that I didn’t truly believe was worthwhile. I can wholeheartedly recommend this program though!

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A Heavenly Carnival…

March 1, 2013 by Logan 11 Comments

My dear friend, Melissa, went to be with Jesus yesterday.

Brokenhearted doesn’t really begin to touch the way we’ve all been feeling.

Our group of friends has fought with her for nearing 2 years now.  We’ve watched children, and taken meals.  We’ve been on our knees… praying and texting scriptures with truth and encouragement between us for months.  And Melissa has been the most valiant warrior through it all.  She held on to hope and to Jesus the whole way.  She’s been strong and courageous and spunky.  She inspires us all with her faith and her fight.

I am privileged to call her friend.  Privileged to journey with her…to do life with her…to adventure with her…and to fight with and for her.  Truly…it’s been an absolute honor.

 

And now…she’s doing great!  She’s healed, and whole, and dancing with Jesus.  She’s celebrating in heaven!

But there are those of us left behind.  There are these sweet little people who will do life now without this incredible woman around.

There’s her strong and courageous husband who will learn how to tie hairbows and match shoes.  Who will do the work of 2 as just one.  Who will raise these 3 sweet children without his best friend and wife of nearly 19 years.  He will go this journey without her, but he will not be alone.

Her parents have lost a daughter…and 2 amazing women have lost their sister.

And her friends…we’re here…and we miss her.  We asked her to share her heart for her kids with us, and we committed to her to pray HER heart for HER children their whole lives long.  So while Melissa isn’t here anymore with us…she will NOT be forgotten.  And the legacy that she created and lived will long surpass her too-short 40 years on this earth.  Long surpass.

Melissa shared recently with my friend Milly how she wanted to have a party sometime with the song from the movie Rio playing and everyone dancing.  The Lord gave Milly a picture that she shared with us last night of Melissa whole and vibrant in heaven…a flowing colorful skirt, a flower in her hair, and a smile upon her face…dancing and twirling around to the song.  So Milly looked up the words to the song and downloaded it for us all to hear.

It was the first time I’ve ever imagined the party in heaven with such vibrancy.  I guess maybe I always imagine some angelic choir that’s peaceful and stunningly beautiful.  I’ve never thought of it as tribal and exciting…but last night when I heard this song…and thought of Melissa and her love of birds…I saw heaven with new eyes.  And I saw her dancing and twirling and pain-free.  As we listened to Milly read the words, and then heard the song…I saw it all…and while this heart of mine misses my friend, and aches for her family…there is a part of me that sees her now at the greatest party of all…that you won’t find anywhere else.

All the birds of a feather
Do what they love most of all
We are the best at rhythm and laughter
That’s why we love carnival

Possibly we can sing too
Sun and beaches, they coo
Dance to the music, passion and love
Show us the best you can do

Everyone here is on fire
Get up and join in the fun
Dance with a stranger, romance and danger
Magic could happen for real in Rio

All by itself, you can’t see it coming
You can’t find it anywhere else
It’s real in Rio, know something else
You can feel it happen, you can feel it all by yourself

All the birds of a feather
Do what they love most of all
Moon and the stars, sun and guitars
That’s why we love carnival

Loving our life in the jungle
Everything’s wild and free
Never alone ’cause this is our home
Magic can happen for real in Rio

All by itself, you can’t see it coming
You can’t find it anywhere else

Here everybody loves samba, I like the samba
Rhythm you feel in your heart, I’m the samba master
Beauty and love, what more could you want?
Everything can be for real in Rio

Here’s something else
You just feel it happening
You won’t find it anywhere else

Cheers to you Melissa!  I raise a glass and my heart and I thank you for how your friendship has changed me…and how it will continue to change me.  I love you my friend, and my heart soars when I think of the dancing that you are doing now.  Kiss my babies in heaven for me?  We’ll be loving on yours here.  I celebrate your wholeness and your dancing.  You fought the good fight…and your legacy is an enormous footprint in the Kingdom of Heaven!

*Please pray for Melissa’s family?  Lift them up to heaven?  Pray comfort and peace and understanding over them?  Pray strength and wisdom over her husband?  Pray for sweet memories of their mother to stick hard in the minds of these precious little ones?  For confidence that they each know how deeply they were loved and cherished.  Join me to pray for this family…for my friends.

Now close your eyes and listen to this song…imagine heaven maybe like never before. A carnival! It’s so so good…

*Photo credits: Lauren Walker, song lyrics “Real in Rio” by Jamie Foxx

 

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Allume Tickets on Sale TONIGHT at Midnight!

February 28, 2013 by Logan Leave a Comment

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Okay, technically they go on sale Friday at midnight, EST, but every year people get confused and ask, “Friday at midnight, or Thursday night?” It all feels confusing, I know, so have your fingers ready to pounce at 11:59pm Thursday night, because there are only 50 early bird tickets and those babies go FAST. Like, gone in 2 seconds fast. At least that’s what’s happened the last three years.

So

Drink your coffee, have your crab dip or chocolate cake ready, and have some fun on Twitter with us allume gals as we hangout and have some fun during the ticket launch. There may even be prizes. Ok…so really, there might even be a free ticket for one lucky hardcore late-nighter! 😉

See you there! #allume

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